Beginnings

New beginnings are always hard, I always cling to old things, old people, old thoughts, old feelings; old me. Newness is difficult, acceptance takes time, but in the process of adopting novelty and new you, the “good old you” is lost. New version of you is not a problem because every different situation in your life demands a new you, a whole new set of rules you have to commute.  But problem is when you stop being what you are and start to live a life that is not yours, in your life, you start to adopt new things, new language, new rules, new company and a totally different you, thinking that the past mistakes that the old you have committed must be erased by erasing the whole version of old you. But at that time you need to ponder really well that even your new version will lack a bunch of things, even today you will make mistakes and cry over them but where there are your bad and sour shades there are your lovely and sweet shades as well. “No one in the world is a full villain we all are a mixture of Hero, villain, side hero, helper etc.” In fact we are not one character, we all are bunch of characters, playing our roles where we have to. Playing lead, playing villain, playing oppressor, playing innocent but in the end we are what situations put us in and we have to play the best suited role for us. Accepting new you with a blend of old you is growth, and becoming a new you with shunning the old one is oppression to your own self.

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